A CRITICAL STUDY OF PSYCHO SEXUAL PROBLEMS of TEENAGERS

In the developmental psychology one could see that the person grows from one stage to another stage step by step. This gradual process of human being is a natural aspect where the growth either leads either positive development or negative regression. From childhood to old age there are various stages where a person grows and develops his physical, mental and psychological facet of life. In these stages the adolescent stage is very interesting and golden stage in one's life. This stage is also known as "Teenage" where a boy or girl passes through a transition period from childhood. This progress is very unique as it is creating a certain level of maturity in one's physical and mental development.A boy or girl who has been in the protection of parents a child has move from restriction and control to freedom and autonomy. This peculiar and unique period has created false understanding among the parents that the children may be misled or they may take a negative path. This over cautious attitude of parents has led the children to get angry or a negative behaviour towards the parents. So there is a tug war going on between the teenager and the parents. In a way the parents are over protective towards their children so that the teenager feels that they still treated as children and the teenager is unable to enjoy the freedom and autonomy.Since such false understating and a tug of war in other words a hide and seek between these two groups continue to exist where the question arises who is right and who is wrong. At the same time who fails in his/her role as parents as well as a teenager. This problem of misunderstanding and role failure has created in me a researcher to find out where the problem is and who creates the problem and if at all there comes up a problem then who needs to be intervened is all about my study.By doing this research we are clear where this over protective parents who just created a wonder and curiosity, on the other hand the Teenager who misunderstood their parents started playing the hide and seek.Having my own personal interest and personal inquisitiveness I have completed this research work with the help of teenagers themselves. I hope this would be a guide in directing the teenagers and their parents.