Advice She Actually Wants

Everyone wants to give a pregnant woman advice.

But whose words of wisdom does she actually want? Those of her own community.

Enter "The Advice She Actually Wants" journal: a place for friends of the new mom to create a written circle of support that can be opened whenever the new mom most needs it.

Perfect for baby showers, mother's blessing ceremonies, or as a gift from a new mom's friends, the journal includes the following sections:

Shower Notes to Mama & Baby

• Space for guests to write short notes of encouragement, make predictions about baby, and offer specific ways that they can be of support to the new mom

Advice from Other Moms

• Prompts to elicit advice, reassurance, and reflections that both normalize the struggles of motherhood and also illuminate the gifts
• (This section can be filled in privately by each advice-giver, serve as the inspiration for 1:1 conversations, or act as topics within a women's circle or mother's blessing ceremony.)

Notes By the New Mom

• A place for the new mama to reflect, set intentions for motherhood, and anchor herself during this sacred transition

Gift Log

• Space to track the gifts given at her shower

Mama's Affirmations for Pregnancy & Birth