Do As I Say, Not Who I Did

Do As I Say, Not Who I Did is not subtle, delicate, or laced in metaphor. . . . Its compelling, funny, and unflinchingly educational while delivering a stream of unconditional compassion for the reader.Daily Campus Its hard to overstate how much we put pressure on early sexual encountersand how little real advice is out there. How do I deal when I keep running into my one-night stand? How can I tell if Im too drunk to have sex? How do I say stop when Im not really into it? Why do I keep getting all these UTIs? And most of all: Why is so much of sex ed focused on what could go wrong instead of what actually feels good? In this unflinchingly honest guide to hookups and relationships in the twenty-first century, Ali Drucker answers these questions and morewith been there, done that confessional advice, plus input from experts on sexuality and from students in college today. If you missed out on shame-free, affirmative sex education . . . if youre nervous about having sex . . . if youre just discovering what you want (and how to ask for it)this book is for you.