How Did I Get Here?

In this powerful and inspiring memoir, Dr. Lavina Covin chronicles her transformative journey from a scared teenage mother to a proud doctoral graduate. Written to inform, teach, and motivate, her story is a testament to resilience, determination, and the strength to overcome life's greatest challenges. For years, Dr. Covin kept her story to herself, feeling ashamed of the circumstances that led to her becoming a young mother. Now, as an educator dedicated to social change and cultural empowerment, she shares her narrative to inspire others-especially young single mothers and individuals facing adversity-by demonstrating that, despite the struggles, there is always a way forward.

Through her personal experiences, Dr. Covin encourages readers to understand the importance of co-parenting and the long-term impact absent fathers can have on children. She reflects on the emotional toll of broken relationships and the lasting effects they carry, offering hope and guidance for both women and men in her community to become active, positive parents.

Drawing strength from her faith and the lessons she learned along the way, Dr. Covin illustrates that reflection is not just about looking back but also about learning and growing through hardship. Her story is one of overcoming generational struggles, self-doubt, and societal expectations, ultimately proving that with perseverance and belief in a greater purpose, anything is possible.

This memoir is for anyone striving to achieve their dreams, change their life, or overcome personal challenges. It is especially meant for young mothers, children facing absent fathers, and anyone who feels that their circumstances are holding them back from success. By sharing her journey of personal growth, educational achievement, and empowerment, Dr. Covin invites readers to walk with her on the path of healing and transformation.