Ideal Family Man Tamil / சிறந்த குடும்பஸ்தர்

 An Ideal Family Man must be trained as a celibate before marriage under a guru; he should act as per the directions of the guru and follow the ideal grihastha like Bhaktivinoda Thakur, etc, A man must consult Astrologer before finalizing marriage, he must give in Charity to others, he must be compassionate towards others, he must Love his own family members and others as well, and he must protect Domestic animals like Cows, Elephant, Horse, Dogs, and Cats, etc An Ideal family man must be austere by raising early in the morning attending Mangal Arathi, Guru Puja, Chanting Japa, Following vows like Ekadashi Fasting, etc, he must give up Sinful activities like Meat-Eating, Gambling, Intoxication, Illicit Sex, etc. An Ideal family man must protect and Guide Children in a proper way, especially with respect to spiritual life. He must offer Pinda, Tarpana, Etc to his Forefathers. He should not be too much attached to his Relatives, Possessions nor should he be too much detached from Material possessions, Relatives, etc. An Ideal family man must perform Sacrifice to Please Lord Krishna, Especially Sankirtan yajna which is the recommended Sacrifice in this Age of Quarrel and Hypocrisy. He must be satisfied with whatever wealth, Property, a reputation he has attained by the grace of Lord Krishna. He should endeavor to establish his Relationship with lord Krishna and act according to that relationship.