Lead with Two Rules: Feeling Good & Feeling Safe

In a world burdened by countless rules, Lead with Two Rules offers a refreshing and transformative perspective. The conventional wisdom in education used to focus on rules and regulations, but now, in 2023, the landscape has changed. An alarming epidemic of depression and anxiety has swept through the young minds, exacerbated by the relentless challenges of the Covid pandemic. For principals and teachers, both seasoned and new, this is an overwhelming shift, redefining their roles.

Amid this crisis, this remarkable book introduces a simple philosophy-a beacon of hope that is reshaping the educational landscape. At its core are two rules, deceptively simple yet profoundly effective: "Will this make me (or them) feel good?" and "Will this make me (or them) feel safe?" When students embrace these guiding principles, they embark on a journey of self-discovery, empathy, responsibility, and resilience. These rules empower students to navigate their lives, identify problems, and seek solutions, ultimately forging a path towards personal growth.

But these two rules are not just for the students; they're also a promise from the adults in their school. A pledge to nurture an environment where students feel good and safe. The book is a treasure trove of real-life stories illustrating how the author supported educators in transforming their interactions with students, ensuring that these two promises are kept.

A critical component of this transformative approach is a dedicated team structure that supports student mental health. By having professionals within the school who can address mental health concerns, two essential transformations occur. First, teachers no longer shoulder the sole burden of students' mental health, freeing them to focus on teaching. Second, students find solace in knowing that trusted individuals are there to support them during difficult times. This symbiotic relationship fosters an environment where both students and teachers can thrive and, most importantly, learn.

Lead with Two Rules is a compelling guide for educators, administrators, and parents alike. It's a blueprint for creating a culture where student mental health is paramount, leading to a brighter, more hopeful future in the world of education.