Safe in the Date

The church of St. Laurence stands in the centre of the village of Old Botlean and is central to the story.Outdoor elements have taken their toll on the church building over the years; however, the crumbling structure still provides a shelter. Broken panes of glass in a window need to be replaced but the framework is strong. Repairs to the roof reflect how lives can be strengthened with steadfast support.Family and friends help and hinder attempts to rebuild her life after the passing of her beloved husband, Peder - a free spirit with artistry inscribed on his soul. Ruth's parents love her dearly. Dad spoils her and performs endless 'dad jokes' which Ruth finds annoying to put it mildly. Mum is more selective with her treats and sometimes refers to her as Blodwyn - a name interwoven with the roots of her maternal grandmother. They were worried about the age gap between their only daughter and her husband. Ruth had no reservations about him being older. He was not financially wealthy but had a wealth of knowledge which he shared with his devoted wife.Ruth finds volunteering rewarding but the increasing number of hours and involvement in church life stretches her resilience. She wants to help the new vicar, Wilberforce, and his wife, Hannah, to settle into the parish. They face resistance and need to find ways to compromise. Ruth expresses empathy for Hannah because the pressure is a heavy weight to carry on her fragile shoulders. The expectation of the more seasoned members of the congregation is an additional burden.Ruth's mother, is an exceptional cook and her Sunday roast is legendary. When younger, Ruth and her brother thoroughly enjoyed meals at the family dinner table: no telephones, nor television, nor radio, to take away their precious time together. Alas, Ruth did not inherit her mother's culinary skills, and this is frequently pointed out by her lifelong friend, Geraldine: a sharp character who dishes out tough love to Ruth. They worked together in the City of London and shared a studio flat which was quite an experience. An attempt to re-capture their youth during a night out in central London reaffirms you can regret but can not reclaim the past. However it is amusing to reminisce. Aching feet after dancing in high heels again is far too painful as are some of the memories.The advancing years worry Ruth. When she trips on the loose paving stone by the entrance to the Church Hall and is overwhelmed by a surprise birthday party, organised by the church family, to celebrate her reaching a 'certain age' ; she knows change is afoot.Does Ruth have to leave Old Botlean to secure a new life? Her family, friends and community hope she does not go and deep down, Ruth shares their sentiment. But sometimes you have to leave the nest to rest. Maybe, a respite will revitalise her confidence and courage.You are invited to meet an eclectic mixture of characters: colourful, comedic, and controversial. Interactions and interventions during church meetings are not as peaceful and joyful as one may expect.