Stop Breathe and Think!

Lemar was yelling and crying. The whole class looked and found it in the trash!  Instead of crying what can she do?

AS a preschool teacher, I often help my children overcome their strong emotions. I admit it is a very hard task. Through experience, i came to learn that overcoming tantrums is an ongoing learning process for both the teacher and the student. It all come down to replacing the old behaviour with a new one. Ideally, tantrum times are not teaching moments. therefore, teaching through reflection and example is a very safe and proactive practice.

You will see how the author brushes through the tantrum, giving less attention to the undesired behavior. Ultimately, The goal of this book is to reflect on a tantrum situation. For children having frequent meltdowns, we can help them by developing their self-regulation skills. Sometimes, if not always, children may feel sad or mad about one thing or another, which is normal. It is very healthy for them to express their needs and feelings. 

Don't forget, it is very important we teach children how to express their feeling while preventing them from feeling shameful and guilty.