The Gentleman's Handbook

Gentlemen might be in short supply today, but this little book of wisdom could be a cure. If you're a young man who cares about the quality of his mark on the world -- or if you know such a young man -- the aphorisms of "The Gentleman's Handbook" may prove a helpful guide.

 

/////////////////////////////////////////////////

 

Aaron Shepard is an author, photographer, publisher, and aspiring gentleman. He lives with his wife and fellow author, Anne L. Watson, in Bellingham, Washington.

 

/////////////////////////////////////////////////

 

CONTENTS

 

A Gentleman in Love

A Gentleman in Speech

A Gentleman in Society

A Gentleman in Life

 

/////////////////////////////////////////////////

 

SAMPLES

 

A gentleman always finds a compliment for a lady he loves.

 

A gentleman never compares one lady to another.

 

A gentleman understands that every lady is a flower, and that love will make her bloom.

 

----------------------------

 

A gentleman listens carefully to others and takes pains to remember what he hears.

 

A gentleman never smirks.

 

A gentleman knows that words should be weighed, not counted.

 

----------------------------

 

A gentleman understands that the value of any person goes far beyond their usefulness to him.

 

A gentleman does not leave messes for others to clean up.

 

A gentleman knows he cannot help others if he does not stand on firm ground himself.

 

----------------------------

 

A gentleman knows that what he does is less important than how he does it.

 

A gentleman does not avoid what should be resolved.

 

A gentleman knows that his worth is measured not by what he collects but by what he contributes.