Yes! Your Marriage is PERFECT!

FIGHT! They say anything worth having is worth waiting for. True. It's also worth fighting for. Your marriage is no different. So why start and not finish? Why get in and not see it through? Why give up on something that you were always going to have to fight for anyway?

Your marriage is perfect. There are very few situations in which we find ourselves in that we can say that about. Why not embrace this perfect place? Surely, there are times where, as imperfect beings, we struggle to see the wonderful situation we're in. We're still growing as individuals. We're still learning. We're individuals with unique responsibilities, unique roles, and unique personal experiences that somehow have to work together. It's tough. With a committed mindset, it's a little easier to make this work.

I've decided to share some real occurrences from my relationship that are common to us all. While, obviously, the way these points were highlighted in my relationship will be different from the way they show up in yours, there are common resolutions we all have to get to. With proper perspective we see the perfection in our union, and we fight to do just that. Here's a piece of my fight. I pray it'll help you through yours.