A new me

I embarked on a personal journey of self-discovery after realizing that I had spent much of my life chasing success and external validation. I was caught in the pressure of meeting societal expectations, which led to my growing dissatisfaction and a constant feeling of being unfulfilled. The turning point came when I recognized that I needed to focus on my inner peace, my passions, and my authentic self, instead of simply striving for achievements that didn't truly align with who I was. I began reconnecting with my love for writing, a passion that had been overshadowed by the hustle for professional success.

I set aside time each day to write, not with the intention of impressing others or meeting deadlines, but to express my truth and explore my emotions. Writing became a way for me to heal, process my past, and reconnect with the parts of me I had neglected. I also re-established relationships with my family and friends, which had suffered due to my obsession with my career. I reached out to my parents, and the warmth of their love reminded me of what truly mattered-connection, support, and shared history. I rekindled old friendships, like with Nkechi, who had always believed in me. These relationships brought me a sense of belonging and helped me realize that my worth wasn't tied to my job or the approval of strangers.

I learned to live in the present, embracing each moment and trusting the journey. I stopped trying to control every aspect of my life and let go of the fear of failure. I found peace in understanding that life would unfold as it should, and I no longer needed to rush toward some distant goal or perfect version of myself. I gave myself permission to be imperfect, to make mistakes, and to grow at my own pace.